by twelvestones | Apr 29, 2022 | Abuse, Trauma & PTSD, Sexuality
In the last blog, we looked at some obstacles to sexual enjoyment. Sexual assault, abuse, or violation is one of the most significant barriers to building a flourishing sex life in marriage. For some of us, our first sexual experiences were unwanted, unchosen. And...
by twelvestones | Apr 22, 2022 | Sexuality
Lots of cliches (and myths) exist about sex: it’s a gift to enjoy; it’s a duty to endure; men have an intense sex drive; women have a lower sex drive; it’s a biological need. Then there’s the popular Pauline one-liners: “don’t deprive each other”; “fulfill your...
by twelvestones | Apr 15, 2022 | Sexuality
To my Jesus-loving friends who also struggle with sexuality and identity: Lots of ink has been spilled writing about you. About your “lifestyle.” You’ve listened to Christians who fear you, hate you, or oppress you under the spiritualized guise of loving you. I’m so...
by twelvestones | Apr 11, 2022 | Sexuality
I live in Southern California, a land of endless summertime, surfer vibes, and epic coastal beauty. Like in many metropolitan meccas, the homes and front yards of my city are often decorated with Pride flags and “Love is Love” signs. My city is considered among the...
